Men ... i need answers ...

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Dear bros out there ... just want to understand what's going on in the head of men say 3 months into their wedding day? What will you guys be thinking about? What runs in your head? In your heart? In your mind?
Normally we girls will be busy with the wedding preparation and the guys are usually more of a supporter than they get their hands dirty into the planning and all that ... all they know when the day finally comes ... they'll be ready for that solemnisation ... but then 3 months before ... what actually happen? where are they guys?
hmmm ...
pssstttt ... ladies you're most welcome to comment too ...

Comments

  1. Rafidah Ramly22 September 2008 at 01:32

    saya bleh comment tak sis.. banyak bleh berlaku .. hehe.. satunya.. sibuk ngan kerja. kedua lori,barang barang lori, jumpa kawan lori hehehe.. macam kita tak ada gitu eh.. lol! .on off on off.. will tend to think bout the wedding preparation but nothing progress pun... i guess.. its individual, not you alone ... is wondering bout it.. me too!

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  2. JusMoi -22 September 2008 at 01:51

    hahah ... of course ler leh comments ... not open to just the men je ... kalo yg the ladies nk comment ... very much welcome ...

    tu la dia ... kalo tink abt the wedding but nothing gets done ... so the BIG QNS is ... are they for real? cam ne kita yg girls tk stress tak tentu pasal when they are just not helping kan?

    but then yg sibuk keja, sibuk "upgrade" lori, sibuk shopping2 brg lori, sibuk jumpa fren lori ... then kenapa tk leh sibuk "upgrade" bilik, shopping2 brg kawin, jumpa2 org2 yg will run the wedding ... asl tk leh??

    imagine sis if kita dok diam ... siape yg agi stress? do you tink the wedding will still takes place?

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  3. Kai Nasarudean22 September 2008 at 03:11

    OOOoo U getting married???

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  4. ian marsya22 September 2008 at 03:55

    MEN - they dun do wat we want them to do ...

    honestly, eventho women are seen as the "kanchiong spider" type ... men, are far worst ... coz they nvr even bother to anticipate anyting ...

    so now time dorang nak tarik kewl ... juz wait till the day gets nearer ... he mite juz tap u & raise tt tiny red flag ... LoL ...

    (",)

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  5. Kai Nasarudean22 September 2008 at 06:15

    wah lepak kan geram man this lady! :D

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  6. ian marsya22 September 2008 at 08:17

    ???

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  7. JusMoi -22 September 2008 at 08:19

    lol ... guess b4 he start tapping me i'll bust him with the "things to get DONE" ... wish we could be as cool as they were aren't we? but being women ... i rather get things done then having to do it the last min ... we have enough to shoulder for months ...we dun need the day itself or nearer to the day to shoulder more ...

    but do u ever wonder what marriage means to them? or love for a fact? hmm ...

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  8. ian marsya22 September 2008 at 17:06

    not until i met Fit .... he said, "wen the men pulls the handbrake, they'll do it" ... i dun understand tt metaphor to begin wif! ... as years gone by, i c the changes in him .... & tt my moimoi, u will b experiencing it soon enuf *winks* .... (",)

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  9. ♥ J'aDoRe LyNRoSe ♥ IrWaN22 September 2008 at 18:40

    ya la dear..
    agree wif kak ian..
    dey like to do last min things!
    heheheheh

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  10. JusMoi -22 September 2008 at 19:01

    hmm ... but then babe i believe not all men pulls the handbrake and leave it be ... at times they choose to release it again and hit the accelerate for that cheap thrill once again ...

    but i believe also that ade segelintir yg do what they say ... cos naturally men are not multi-tasker ... handling more than 1 at a time is not their forte ..

    *cross my fingers* i WANT to experience it ... and i need the assurance badly ... *winks*

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  11. JusMoi -22 September 2008 at 19:02

    kalo do things last min alrite jgk babe ... kalo change mind last min cam ne?? *thinking*

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  12. ♥ J'aDoRe LyNRoSe ♥ IrWaN22 September 2008 at 19:04

    change mind last min??
    tu minta kena kapak!!
    heheheh
    don't wori la dear..
    jodoh tk ke mana k..
    don't be too paranoid..
    everythin will be jus fine..

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  13. JusMoi -22 September 2008 at 19:09

    hahaha ... cool ... i tink hammer works better ... *lol*
    paranoid dah macam my middle name gitu ... ishhhh ... amit amit ...

    *tink positive* *postive tots* *happy tots*

    that's the thing ... becos we never know what goes on in that head of theirs ... what they are really tinking ... we never know what they will do ... hmm ...

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  14. ♥ J'aDoRe LyNRoSe ♥ IrWaN22 September 2008 at 19:15

    yes n we will nvr noe dear cos kita bukan mind reader..
    jus be cool n relax k..
    believe in faith..
    kalau da takdir..terima k..
    insya allah..
    stay positive gal!

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  15. JusMoi -22 September 2008 at 20:38

    if only we have the power ... hehehe
    ya fate always have their own game ... like it or not ... kita hanya mampu redha ...
    InsyaAllah dear ... insyaAllah ...

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  16. ian marsya22 September 2008 at 20:58

    yes ... they do tt ... cheap thrills are once in a lifetime adrenaline rush to the end of their melons ... so called lah ... hehehehe ...

    men are definitely not a multi-tasker ... thr's a lot of tests done on all our men! ... LoL ...

    anyhoo, come wat may ... i noe u'll hv a smooth ride .... (",)

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  17. JusMoi -22 September 2008 at 21:35

    those words of yours sure are like a tight squeeze hug ... lup u lotsssssss ... *i'm smiling*

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  18. Zalinah Seman23 September 2008 at 00:53

    babe! kao nak kahwin ek? ape cerita? update ako pls :)
    btw last sat ako jumpa sab and hisham kat kosway point. a bit ackward larr...but nvm..
    Hisham ddnt know dat asrafi not driving cab anymore i guess sebab he asked him "arini tak drive?"....laki ako plak jawab..."tak..."
    hm..mm.

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  19. JusMoi -23 September 2008 at 01:18

    wah ni crita gerek ni ... meh aku PM kao ...

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  20. Maman Mambo23 September 2008 at 21:44

    Frankly on my 3mths to go of my wedding day, 1)Kira budget $$ enough or not hah!? 2) Planning Meninggal zaman bujang party!! Yipee..! 3) Planning leave bape ari nak amik. 4) Trainin angkat nikah.. 5) Tak sabau nak naik pelamin...(macam betul je) Wrakaka!

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  21. JusMoi -24 September 2008 at 01:32

    biar betul bro??!!!! i tink it's more of the "PLANNING MENINGGAL ZAMAN BUJANG" ... kan? kan? kan?

    pikir kan things that you can do now ... and things that you cannot do later ... kan? kan? kan?

    or no worries at all ... cos NOTHING will change?? hmmm ...

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  22. Maman Mambo25 September 2008 at 06:43

    Sori sis but in reality things are so much diff. The important thing is for us to cope with the changes ahead as everything will definately change. Even things that we don't expect to change will somehow be different from wat we anticipate..

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  23. JusMoi -25 September 2008 at 08:13

    tul tu bro ... i agree with you. i think changes is unavoidable ... it comes with age, maturity, responsibilities, ... the list just goes on and on ...

    but does that scares the men off?

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  24. Maman Mambo26 September 2008 at 00:21

    Nope for me infact i take it as a challenge. I mean like u said age, maturity and responsibilities will make us aware that this is all unavoidable just like death. If u denied all this changes in your life u'll never move on and u can see this kind of ppl around, maaf ckp. Da berumur pun nak step mcm youngster.

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  25. JusMoi -26 September 2008 at 05:04

    tul tu bro .. i agree with you. not every1 nak accept the fact that "hey ... it's time you move on to something better" ... not every1 has that insight and willing to accept that fact. sad but true.

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  26. rai sapuan26 September 2008 at 21:50

    hahaha for me, the guy really really spent his singlehood with all his frens..hahaha..we didnt mit for three weeks wati..really...and i tak boleh kacau dia lah..hahaa..dia betul2 lepaskan geram dia ah..hahahhaa...balik kul 3pagi all that tau..hahaha..but on one condition..no woman and no clubbingz for sure!! and dia telah mengota kata2 dia..and now we are happily married with one princess..hehehehe...

    i hope that things will be ok for u too..*winkz* and gal i think this is norm kos they know they are stepping to a new life once they are married...

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  27. JusMoi -28 September 2008 at 00:51

    hmm ... i started to feel that it's really NORM ... thank god your's is 3 weeks je ... looks like his will start much much much much much earlier ... *urut dada* *sabar ti* *sabarrrrrr*

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