trigger words ...

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learnt this at one of those Customer Service courses i ever attended ... knowing your trigger words help you to cope with your anger ...
what exactly is trigger word? it's a word that triggers ur anger ... hahahah

Here's mine ...
1. faham
2. watever la
3. otak
4. kau ... aku ... (by some people)

hopefully i dun have more ... else penat seh nak control anger2 ni ... but if i do ... i'll add up.
so what's urs??

Comments

  1. dee fathya4 August 2006 at 02:57

    maybe like..."dasar bla3x"...from others to a person...

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  2. JusMoi -4 August 2006 at 03:05

    if hearing such words makes u 'boil' with anger ... then that's the word ... *smile*

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  3. SweetLikeLemon BitterLikeSugar4 August 2006 at 03:21

    sabar. sabar.
    *kipas kan wati*

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  4. JusMoi -6 August 2006 at 04:02

    heheheh ... asal u dun said those words to me ... it will not trigger my anger ... heheheh
    anyway nak tgk me marah ... not easy ...

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  5. Jane Doe7 August 2006 at 00:10

    Customers, strangers, employer calling me:

    bitch
    Slut
    mother fucker
    fuck
    *babe (Hmm...this one is not as bad as the others but addressing me as 'babe' makes me feel less intelligent than man which instantly labelled me as a no brainer good looking doll.

    *"Please, Pretty please" (This only apply to men. They make themselves look like a dog begging for something from me when they say this. Please don't call me pretty. A No means No. Some men just don't get it).


    Question: How is it that by knowing these trigger words help me cope with my anger? These words are simply insulting and degrading to women in general. Don't tell me that our ladies Customer Service Officers have to tolerate these? I'll call up for an urgent meeting if this is true.

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  6. XXXX YYYY7 August 2006 at 01:55

    these words can trigger my fuse:

    whatever
    fine
    dgr tak
    hey salah tu
    ko sapa siak

    i think i have more lah but i simply cant recall..wat can i say..i ni temperamental..senang kena fuse..hahahaha..

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  7. JusMoi -8 August 2006 at 05:00

    precisely it may be insulting and degrading to some ... bottomline it triggers ur anger. how does it cope? i believe it's a psychological effect ... knowing what ur trigger words are ... when the words are "spit out" on you ... you just knew that it will make u angry ... and as such u control ...
    sooner or later ... those words become a non-trigger word ... dah jadi lali after a while ...
    i know it works ... cos previously i don't remember these words i mentioned are my trigger words ... *smiles*

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  8. JusMoi -8 August 2006 at 05:02

    well add on as u move along ... delete when it becomes a non-trigger words ... *smiles* good luck!!!
    PS: fuse kalo blow ... make sure it's change ... *winks*

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